Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

I’m two weeks away from Alt Summit 2013 and still feel like I’m soaking in the fullness of the experience. It was really incredible and inspired me more than I could have anticipated. I had considered attending Alt 2012 but instead chose to spend the year figuring out where my blog fit into my life, and how I wanted to represent myself in blogging. When the registration opened for 2013 I was ready to make the investment.

The conference weekend was a complete whirlwind, but I felt prepared for the craziness and comfortable in my skin. I think that comfort and confidence enabled me to really reach out and make friends, connect with brands, and enjoy every minute (after exhausting minute) of the weekend.

I’ve taken some time to think about what lessons from Alt 2013 will really make a lasting impact on my blog and my life, and I’d love to share them with you.

The most resounding lesson (that has been repeating over and over in my head for two weeks) was taught by Stefan Sagmeister at the Friday lunch. He was discussing the topic of happiness and sharing some information and amazing clips from his upcoming movie “The Happy Film.” While meandering through his statistics and thoughts, he said that one day he had an ah-hah moment in which he realized that in order to be happy, he needed to do more of the things that he liked, and less of the things he hated.

DO more of what you LIKE One Little Minute Blog Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

That idea really resonated with me. It made me consider my day to day life and what things I fill it with. Which of the things I do are things I like? I mean, I’m 30-years-and-two-days-old with a family, business, and hobbies on the side. There is no one else but me shaping my weeks, months and years. I CAN CHOOSE what I want to do! It may seem simple, but the idea of Doing More of What I Like has liberated me from some of the “should” and “have to” of my life. I’m working on letting go of the things I don’t like and inviting in more of the things that I do.

For my life, this is means more unplugging to read books (made from paper!), eating slow meals with fresh ingredients, and folding laundry while it’s warm and cozy. For my blog it means taking time for projects that inspire me and offer value to you, creating focused series with thorough and comprehensive content (like Reindeer Week, or Stretch Yourself), and ensuring the timeline I create is realistic and manageable.

Of all of the lesson I learned at Alt Summit, this one was the farthest reaching. So much so that I cut it out of fabric and am going to hang it above my bed. If just for this tiny tidbit of inspiration, my Alt investment would have been worth it. But guys, there was more!

Alt Summit Notebooks Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

Your notebook is your best friend. At registration, each attendee was given a notebook and pen. I took profuse notes at all of the lectures, keynote speakers, and each night I even taped all of the business cards I had collected that day into my notebook and wrote little notes about where I had met each person. Each day at Alt is really busy, and taking notes helped me keep the experience organized. I’m sure if I hadn’t been so meticulous I would remember a whole lot less about the experience.

For my life this means I need to make more room for journaling so I continue to remember and build upon the experiences I have, rather than repeat them over and over. For my blog this means sketching and planning before jumping into projects. It also means keeping a clear and organized record of collaborations and sponsorships to be able to build more meaningful relationships.

Alt Summit 2013 Balloon Party with Katie Soloker One Little Minute Blog Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

Impromptu balloon parties are awesome (aka engage the audience.) Cute Katie Soloker of Color Me Katie is full of surprises. Just check out her blog to see what I mean. I was so excited for her keynote talk the last day of Alt. The first few minutes seemed a little rough…Katie is a bitty person with a quiet voice and I think the vast room and semi-exhausted crowd just absorbed her words. Suddenly, when it seemed like she was out of things to say, she invited each of us to reach under our chairs, blow up the balloon that she had put there, and throw them into the air! Just like that, the room was filled with bustling energy, laughter, and tiny Katie bounced up and down over the chairs snapping photos of her impromptu party. Inviting the audience to participate in the fun made all the difference, and was so appropriate, since that’s what Katie is all about anyway. It made her art real to us, and is something everyone who attended her talk will always remember.

For my life this means planning fun and unexpected things to really engage with my family and friends to make them smile and create valuable memories. For my blog it means being even more conscious of my wonderful audience of readers and inviting them to participate in the projects that inspire me, either through comments and social media or by providing the tools for you to create with confidence.

Class Lectures Alt Summit 2013 Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

There is always something to learn. All of the lectures I attended were really great. I learned about collaborating with sponsors, earning revenue from blogging, how to be a contributor to other blogs, and organizing my life online. On Friday afternoon I was headed to what I thought was a social media lecture and I ended up in a class about finding your own unique voice by Karen of Chookooloonks. To be honest, I felt a touch of disappointment that I would be missing out on the social media class ( I mean, how am I ever going to figure out twitter?!) but in about 10 seconds I was completely sucked into the lecture and knew that what I was learning about slowing down and being present, stoping comparison, and creating my own story were such valuable and meaningful lessons. In the end, I loved the class, and even got a little emotional when I shook Karen’s hand and told her thank you for telling me what I needed to hear. Any of the classes would have been wonderful, and I’m sure they all are. The thing to really understand is that there will be something valuable to learn in any of them!

For my life this means thinking about each day as an opportunity to become better, and looking for the nuggets of value in the experiences I have. For my blog this means maintaining a teaching environment, ensuring I’m sharing something of value in every post I write.

Chris Anderson at Alt One Little Minute Blog Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

People are people, say hello. I went into my Alt experience excited to connect with people. That was one of the primary reasons I attended the conference. Getting to spend time in the flesh (rather than via screen) with other wonderful folks was so refreshing, and truly filled my soul. I was lucky to sit in the front during the first keynote, given by Chris Anderson from Wired Magazine. His talk about the second industrial revolution through technology in design was super interesting, informative, and inspirational. I loved hearing about things I had never before heard of (like 3D printers…what the what? I’m thinking we should get this less expensive one for Christmas next year.) After the talk was a question and answer, where I hesitated to raise my hand because I couldn’t think of a great question. Then, the talk ended, and the room began to clear, and Chris stood up five feet from me and I thought why not go say hello?! It could have been so easy to be intimidated, self-conscious, or uninterested, but I remembered then that people are all people, and I was here to connect. Chris was warm and so nice. Once in front of his face, I actually thought of a couple quick questions, that he answered cordially and kindly.

Shaking Chris’ hand set me up to feel comfortable approaching, meeting and talking with everyone I could at ALT. I have been blogging and reading blogs for six years, which has given me a long time to admire some favorite more well-known bloggers. I felt really lucky to meet and talk with some of them at the conference, rather than just gawk at them. I also got to meet some really incredible people who I had never heard of, and who I can’t wait to get to know better.

For my life this means pushing myself outside of my comfort zone to meet and connect with people, make new friends, and value real life relationships. For my blog this means treating my readers as people, and doing my best to respond to emails, comments, and questions with honest and real answers.

Relax Unwind Alt 2013 Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

Relaxing is as important as working. Each day of the conference there were lounges sponsored by different brands and companies. The first day, BING sponsored a room with the theme #bingittolife. For months leading up to the conference, they had people submit ideas that they had seen and loved with the hashtag #bingittolife, and they presented some of their favorites in the lounge. This huge string art caught my eye one day as I wandered into the lounge. Not only was the art incredibly executed, but the message was meaningful. “Relax and Unwind.” In the middle of the craziness of the conference, this piece spoke volumes, and reflected what was being mentioned-at least in part- in every single lecture I attended: ” love what you do,” “manage your time,” “what is your priority for life?” “be appropriately engaged.”  Even busy busy bloggers have to maintain balance in order to continue being effective busy busy bloggers. Dave (who worked for Franklin Covey for years) calls this the need to “Sharpen the Saw,” I’m going to start calling it my need to “Relax and Unwind.”

For my life this means scheduling time to do those things that relax and unwind me. Some of them include running with friends, reading a good book, traveling with my family, soaking in a hot bath, meditating in nature, shopping at the farmer’s market, and instagramming. Just kidding. Sort of. For my blog this means being intentional with the schedule I create for posting, and then step away, allowing myself time to process, be inspired, and plan for future posts and projects.

Gallery Direct Dinner Alt Summit One Little Minute Blog Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

Partnerships are mutually beneficial. It goes without saying that Alt is filled with sponsors. There were over 30 different, wonderful brands who supported the bloggers at Alt Summit 2013. Blogging has become a valuable advertising option for companies ( I know most of the things I buy were first spotted on a blog somewhere…) and it was really cool to have the chance to mingle with the sponsors and find out if there was a way we could work together! The first evening I attended a dinner sponsored by Gallery Direct, and had such a fun night getting to know the team, and talking about possible partnership ideas. Gallery Direct gifted each of the dinner attendees a gallery wrapped canvas print of a photo we had sent to them before the conference. I simply adore the print I got of little Milo (in costume, as per usual) gazing out the kitchen window. Sponsorships on blogs are no longer going to be just the sidebar and banner ads. Instead, we can be creative and come up with a mutually beneficial partnership where both the brand and the blogger are giving and receiving in a way that feels like a win.

For my life this means approaching challenges from a perspective of teamwork and finding a mutually beneficial win. In a lot of cases this will mean putting in some additional work, but also receiving some additional benefit. For my blog this means being creative when I approach sponsors about partnerships, and staying true to projects and ideas that truly inspire me that can support like-minded companies, as well.

ALT 2013 Photo Booth Mania One Little Minute Blog Lessons for Life and Blogging from Alt Summit 2013

In order of appearance starting with the West Elm Booth: me, Sara from Sarah Hearts, Anna from And Then We Saved, Emily from Tea Collection, Jessica from The Sewing Rabbit, Katherine from Braid Creative, Melissa from Melissa Esplin, Natasha from Little Pink Monster, Ania from The New Diplomats Wife, Susan from Crafter Hours, Nicole from Making it Lovely, Rebecca from Animal Head Vintage, Dana from Made, more with Rebecca, more with Melissa, Dayna from Your Yoko, Chelsea from The Paper Mama   

It’s up to you to make the memories (aka step into every single photo booth you see!) With all of the whirlwind of Alt, it can be really easy to finish the day wondering what on earth even happened! Cram so much into a few hours and something’s bound to slip out. Luckily, there was a photo booth around every corner at the conference, and starting before Alt even began, at the Hello Social, I used them to make a quick memory with the people around who I was talking with. It was so much fun! Somehow taking a photo with someone validates the relationship a little bit, and now my plethora of photo booth photos serve as marking points for the days as they passed and the friends I was meeting. Now, I don’t walk around with a photo booth in my pocket (although, now that I’ve thought of it, I’m totally going to have to create an insta-photo-booth kit…) but the idea of stopping and doing something to acknowledge and remember a moment is a valuable practice.

For my life this means stopping to take more photos with my kids and friends while we’re going about regular life (not only photographing things to blog or instagram…ahem), marking occasions with physical reminders like notes, and having as much crazy fun with brand new friends as I do with good old friends. For my blog this acknowledging personal blogging milestones, fostering new and old relationships with other bloggers and brands through sincere commentary and links, and coming up with memorable posts and series that will mark my personal progress as a blogger.

Whew! That’s a lot to think about, right? Now you know why it’s taken me over two weeks to finish articulating the things I learned at Alt Summit. I have never felt so inspired and excited coming away from a weekend before, and I am ready to begin applying these lessons to my life and blog now, and am already getting my speed-fingers ready to buy my ticket for next year (the conference sold out in 30 minutes this year!) If any, or all of this hit home for you, you might want to think about coming, too! I’d love to meet you at the photo booth!

Images via: (1) stop-motion poster by me (2) Brooke Dennis  (3) Katie Sokoler (4) Justin Hackworth (5) Brooke Dennis (6) Justin Hackworth (7) Brooke Dennis (8) Various Photo Booths

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21 Comments

  1. Posted February 12, 2013 at 2:28 am | Permalink

    Your commentary, photos, outfits, and everything else I’ve seen has me sold on Alt. It looks like it was very worth the time and effort, and looks like it was so much fun! I’m so glad you got to attend, and have fun celebrating your birthday too. Do you know when tickets go on sale? I’ve been following Alt on FB, but haven’t seen any announcements yet.

    I totally love the party dress you designed, as well as the yellow velvet skirt. If I had seen you there and didn’t know you, I would have kidnapped you and shoved you in the photo booth just to take some pictures with you and your fabulous outfits! haha. Does that sound creepy? :)

  2. Posted February 12, 2013 at 11:56 am | Permalink

    Oh, I love this recap of Alt Summit. You put to words so much of what I felt in my experience. Seriously, once I said hi to the first person I didn’t know, it was all rainbows and unicorns from there. I loved every minute. It was non-stop creative + personal bootcamp and it felt so good! You were so lovely and I so wish we could have talked more. I have so many questions!

    Love your photobooth pictures too!

    • Miranda
      Posted February 12, 2013 at 3:13 pm | Permalink

      Your recap resonated with me, too Koseli! I had such a fun time meeting you, and feel the same way about wishing we had had more time to really dig in. I’d love to answer any questions you have!! Let’s be in touch:) xo

  3. Posted February 12, 2013 at 1:53 pm | Permalink

    couldn’t have recapped it better myself. love your stop motion motto and the memories of taking full advantage of all the photobooths!

    • Miranda
      Posted February 12, 2013 at 3:15 pm | Permalink

      Thanks Rebecca! It was pretty fun, right? I’m so happy I got to know you a little bit and hope to get out to San Fran sometime soon. I’ll look you up and we can go eat focaccia together in the park:)

      xo

  4. Posted February 12, 2013 at 6:22 pm | Permalink

    What a wonderful recap! I’m at the exact place you were before Alt 2012. Figuring out EXACTLY how I want this little blog of mine to work and fit into my life. I wanted to go this year but decided to wait until 2014 for the same reasons you waited(plus I have a chubby little boy that I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to leave for a weekend). It’s been fun setting goals for the year and planning out where I want to be before the year is up. The recaps everyone is sharing are so inspiring! Thanks for taking the time to write it all out! Hopefully I’ll see you there next year face to face :)

  5. Posted February 12, 2013 at 9:34 pm | Permalink

    I loved reading this. There is always so much to learn! I am at the point where I’m trying to figure out what my little blog IS exactly. It’s been very reassuring to have seen your thought process along the way and to know that it has culminated in this wonderful experience for you. Thanks for sharing so transparently, not only today, but all the time! I can’t wait to see what all your alt education brings to this page and where you go from here!

    P.S.
    I linked this post in my blog.

    • Miranda
      Posted February 13, 2013 at 2:12 pm | Permalink

      Lauren, what a sincere and sweet comment!

      I really appreciate that you feel like I share transparently, because that is certainly my intention! As far as figuring out your blog, for me it became a matter of figuring out myself and my priorities, and then accepting that this blog would be a reflection of that. Of who I am. In some ways, that allows me freedom to live my life aside from creating projects and blogging. In other ways, it motivates me to post about things that I really love, and in a way that I would appreciate as a reader (close up, clear photos of DIY steps, conversational writing, etc.) My blog is pretty small, and will probably stay that way, but I love it, and believe it has value both for my life, and those people who learn something new by stumbling in here!

      So, thank you for being a kind supporter! Your own blog looks really wonderful (that plaid TOVA?!)

      xoxo

  6. Posted February 12, 2013 at 9:53 pm | Permalink

    Wow, Miranda! I didn’t even know there was a conference like this for bloggers. Was it geared towards a certain type of blog (eg. sewing/crafting/DIY versus Mommy blogs, personal blogs, blogs as an extension of a business, etc.)? Your excitement and enthusiasm, bubbling over with plans and ideas reminds me of how I would feel after attending an interior design conference, especially after the first time I attended Maison et Objet in Paris and had the opportunity to meet so many talented, inspired and creative designers, writers, and business owners. It was the first time I ever met anyone who wrote a blog, actually, and I was sitting there over drinks with these fabulous women thinking, hey — I want to do that, too! :-)

    Best wishes as you grow and stretch and refine your blogging presance. You know, I first found your blog when I stumbled across your fashion photo shoot at the Home Depot. It was the perfect mix of interesting projects — inventive and fresh, but not so challenging as to intimidate — mixed with personality, chutzpah and spunk. I think you’ve been on the right track all along, and I will continue to look forward to seeing what you come up with next!

    • Miranda
      Posted February 13, 2013 at 2:16 pm | Permalink

      You are so wonderful, Rebecca. I so appreciate your comments and interest in my life and times:) Alt is a design blog conference, so mainly geared towards design, fashion, lifestyle, diy, photography, etc. bloggers. Although, there was a bit of everything! It really does have a blogging as business focus, and many of the speakers earn a full-time living as professional bloggers!

      I’m so happy that my Home Depot shoot sucked you in! I still chuckle every time I’m in there and pass by the tall, red, off-limits ladder that I posed on in one of my shots. Hilarious. Thank you for being such a supportive reader!

      xoxo

  7. Posted February 12, 2013 at 11:54 pm | Permalink

    fantastic overview! I love what you took from alt! being prepared for it like you were is one thing I wish I did!

    • Miranda
      Posted February 13, 2013 at 2:18 pm | Permalink

      You know, I think the combination of thinking about going to Alt, combined with the $500 price tag made me feel like I had to soak every bit of meaning I could from the weekend. It was exhausting for sure, but really great. I loved meeting you cute thing, and can’t wait to be in touch! Maybe we can hang next year?!

      xo

  8. Posted February 13, 2013 at 1:59 am | Permalink

    Very cool post, Miranda. I for one hope you get a little more sleep this year! ;) Can’t wait to see where you take the blog, too.

    • Miranda
      Posted February 13, 2013 at 2:20 pm | Permalink

      Haha, sleeping more is definitely in the plans for this year…I’m getting old!! It’s been so fun to get to know you a little bit through blogging. Hopefully we’ll get a chance to meet sometime, too! (Sewing Summit 2013??!)

      xo

  9. Ivy
    Posted February 13, 2013 at 2:06 am | Permalink

    First things first — love the new fresh look of your blog — I think it’s been a while since I read it on the actual website. ;)

    Second — thanks for sharing your thoughts on Alt. Even though I’ve never been and probably never will (I guess never say never right?), it was still fun to get a glimpse at all that goes on there from someone I count as a dear friend. I’m excited to see what 2013 brings — on your blog and in your life. I, for one, am looking forward to more meaningful playdates (hint hint — Christian keeps bringing up Milo!), photos of the every day (like you said in your post) and some relaxing and unwinding at the pool. ;)

    Glad you had such a fun, uplifting experience as you kick off your third decade on earth!

    • Miranda
      Posted February 13, 2013 at 2:23 pm | Permalink

      Thank you Ivy! I like the cleaner look of the blog, too!

      Definitely don’t say never. You are such a creative person, and really keep up with blogs, I think you would LOVE going to Alt! Even if you never want to make your blog into a business (but, hey, maybe that’s a good idea?)

      I’m excited to play, too. As soon as you guys are done living the California Dream, feeding chickens and all, you let us know!

      We missed you at my birthday dessert party last night, but I can’t wait to see you when you get home!

      xo

  10. Posted February 13, 2013 at 5:21 pm | Permalink

    great post!
    LOVE the way you did the smilebooth photos. Fun idea!
    It was so great to meet you.

  11. Posted February 14, 2013 at 12:07 am | Permalink

    p.s. LOVE the fabric cut out. I want to hang that on my wall too!

  12. Posted February 15, 2013 at 1:33 am | Permalink

    Great post—I really love that idea of doing more of what you like—recently I’ve been in the process of saying no and cutting out things that don’t matter and don’t make me or my family happy. It’s liberating!
    -liZ

    • Miranda
      Posted February 15, 2013 at 4:02 pm | Permalink

      Thanks Liz! It’s so simple but has really made a huge difference in how I choose to use my time! I’m glad it hit home for you. xoxo

  13. Posted February 28, 2013 at 1:57 pm | Permalink

    Hey Miranda! Wow, great post. I only met you for a brief moment in Summer’s car on the way to the restaurant…..sorry we didn’t get more of a chance to connect. It took me forever to write my recap post because there was just so much to digest. I totally agree with you on so many points. I’m new to your blog here, but I can’t wait to see what’s in store for you next (big things, I can tell :). Have a great day! Lindsay

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